Celebrate All Your Wins and Reward Yourself

It's really common for people to choose weight loss or physical fitness as their New Year's Resolution, train hard and go "gung ho" in the gym for a month or two, and then peter out. Sometimes we can lose focus, take our eyes off the ball, or just allow life to overwhelm us, and before we know it, fitness has taken a major backseat to other priorities in our life.

I've found that it's easier to stay on track when I celebrate my wins every week and establish a reward system. For every 5 or 10 lbs removed I give myself a reward. This gives me something to look forward to. For example, right now I'm very close to achieving my 20 lb. weight loss goal and when I do I'm rewarding myself with a relaxing afternoon at the spa. Choose a reward you really like that is not food-related. Maybe it's a movie with a friend, a weekend getaway, or a mini-shopping spree. Choose bigger rewards for bigger milestones achieved. I've already decided what my reward will be for finishing my 12-week body transformation challenge. It's a pretty big one but I will have earned it.

Think about it...You've made sacrifices, dieted, worked your butt off and put up with being hungry and sore -- lifting, pumping, biking, dancing, running, and doing whatever you do to get great results. So you deserve it!

"Change begins from the inside out"

Until I reach my ultimate goal, each week I like to celebrate my small wins. I sit down with a chart that tracks my week by week progress and compares my goals with actual results. Usually my goal for any given week is a 1-2 lbs weight loss, which is very reasonable and manageable. I pat myself on the back for the days I ate clean, worked out, and did my power mindset (mental exercises). Then I have a little "party" to celebrate my weight loss for the week and anything else positive that happened.

There will always be those weeks when we falter or fall into a slump and don't achieve the goal(s) we intended. I keep a journal and have a "pep me up" page. Whenever I receive them, I write down compliments that co-workers, friends or even random strangers have given me especially as it relates to my fitness progress.  On difficult days I may read over some of these nice words of encouragement to give me an extra boost. It's always great when others start to notice the hard work you've been putting into the gym. This started to happen for me around the 15 lb mark. When the going gets tough I like to remind myself of how just far I've come.

You will automatically feel a rush of energy, positive vibes and a "take charge" attitude once you start celebrating your wins. Those positive thoughts put you in a mindset to keep pushing forward and not give up on your goals.

So what wins are you celebrating this week? I'm happy to say I celebrated losing a cumulative total of 10% of my bodyweight. I also finally fit into a brand new pair of designer skinny jeans that I bought ages ago but was never able to wear.  I intentionally bought them too small and couldn't zip or button them at all. They had been hanging in my closet collecting dust for far too long. This week I decided to try them on just for shiggles (not thinking they would fit). I found myself  zipping them up with ease and looking in the mirror at astonishment and surprise that I could now fit into them. That was really cool and just another "data point" that encourages me to keep going.

I'd love to hear what "wins" you're celebrating this week. I'm giving away 2 tickets to see the Neville Brothers at Hollywood Bowl on 8/18/10. Comment on this blog post to qualify. Only U.S. CA residents eligible to win. Deadline is Friday, 8/13/10.